Everyone has their own way of getting through the holidays. I got anidea from a woman who lost her son & this is what she said they do at Christmas:

“I find the holidays and anniversaries very difficult. For Christmas we hang up David’s stocking w/ the rest of them and throughout the Christmas season people write their good deeds and they are placed in his stocking since there is nothing else we can give him. Santa always brings him a white rose too. On the anniversaries we try to do something nice for other people — normally the NICU. We take a bunch of cookies or donate some books to help other moms or bereavement baskets to the NICU.”

Feel free to share you ideas here to help those who need something to do.